How To Stop Being A Starfish

How To Stop Being A Starfish

This anonymous girl has written and she said, Please help me in all caps. I’ve only had sex three times with three different guys and I’m 21. I lost my virginity like a year ago. So I feel like I’m a starfish. Like I kind of just lay there and take it.

How do I not do that?

People are awkward about this. Like, Masterbate. Touch yourself. See what feels good to you and then incorporate that into fucking sex. Like, that’s what it should be like. Stop focusing so much on the guy and focus on yourself and what feels good.

Also, fucking throw that ass back and roll that ass in a circle, baby.

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